Are you good at asking for help?

Do you say yes to help when you don’t need it but someone offers?? 🤔

What if you need help? Do you ask??

Do you receive help well?? 🤷‍♀️

What if I told you saying yes and reaching out is actually a blessing to not just you but the other person too!?! 💜

👉This is something I’ve learned these past few years … to say yes when people offer to help 😍

Is it hard? Sometimes.

Is it humbling? Yes.

Have I always been good at it? No.

Is it worth it? Always!!

This is me, completely depleted before picking up my older two from school. I almost fell asleep and missed pick up (again, yup I’m that mom lol). I remember this day. I could have reached out to a friend earlier in the day and didn’t. (There were lots of tears and yelling that I had to ask forgiveness for.) Not my best momming day.

💜Having 4 kiddos, running a home, helping in ministry, having a home business and doing other fun things is a lot!! Is it doable? YES! 😍 Can I do it all alone? NO!

👉People who know me and who see me doing all the things, ask how I do it all? My answer is always, “I don’t!!” 🤣😂

I tell them my house is always a mess! (I’m not the best cleaner 😬…. I mean who likes to clean 😂) My hubby who I’m soooooo grateful for, cooks more than me 😬 I have amazing family on both sides who live close and help all the time 🥰 There are amazing leaders in ministry, and in business that work together to pull off amazing things!!! Plus wonderful friends who encourage the heck out of me!!!

BUT!!!! If I don’t ask or receive the help when offered then not only am I missing out on help … but I alienate people from my journey and isolate myself from the blessings of connection!!!

We are not meant to do life alone!!!

👉I feel honored when someone asks me for help! This means they trust me enough to let them in! It means they are willing to let me be a part of their journey! It starts building community and that mom tribe/ village people talk about.

I would not be where I am today, with the support I have, if I didn’t ask for help, receive help, or let people in ❤️

👉All this to say, let people help you! Let others be blessed by blessing you ❤️

I look forward to giving back in all the ways I’ve been helped over the years! Makes me smile just thinking about it 🥰 We are all in different seasons for a reason.

👉Also just want to say thanks again to all the people that have helped me get to the place I am today!! Love you 💜

#iamblessed #sayyestohelp #shoutouttomyawesomehubby

If you relate to any of this I would love to hear from you & be rooting for you!

Leave a comment below!

Don’t leave without subscribing! Stay up to date when I post new things! Like did your hear, “I’m writing a book by the end of the year.”???

Plus, be the first to receive new freebies from me!


One response to “Are you good at asking for help?”

Verified by MonsterInsights